What are you most desperate for in this life?
Have you ever done anything undignified to get it? What?
Does your family have a shameful history that you're trying to overcome? How has that affected you?
Do you think God can redeem your life and family history?
What shame did Christ experience on the cross? But hasn't the cross become his most glorious act? Don't you think God can redeem your shame and turn it into a great testimony?